May 4th, 2011


passing thought

J asked me not too long ago whether I missed some of the people I've stopped being friends with. At the time I was surprised. If I missed them then I probably would have gotten back in touch or something. My last contact with each one was basically being told I sucked for not putting up with their relentless judgements and analysis of me and my choices in life. So I couldn't imagine what he thought I was missing.

And... after all this time? I still don't miss them. Any of them. I had fun with some of them sometimes but overall? Nothing I couldn't do with someone else who actually likes me for ME and respects the choices I make rather than snicker at me behind my back and tell me how stupid I am for disagreeing with them. What is there to miss about that?

Does that make me abnormal?